What is Tucker? Part 2: Just Plain Neighborly

The Ability to Get to Know Your Neighbors

At a holiday party this weekend, a friend who lives east of Stone Mountain talked about doing his gift shopping in Lilburn and Snellville. As he walked between shops, his attempts to greet people with “Merry Christmas,” “Happy Holidays” or even just “Hi” were met with dour looks. He blamed it on holiday stress, but this is not an experience I ever have on Main Street Tucker.

People in Tucker are often described as “approachable,” “neighborly,” “friendly,” etc. They stop and talk in their yards, on their streets, in stores, at community events and anywhere Tuckerites gather. One of my neighbors, a retired lady even older than myself, works out at the same gym that I occasionally haunt. She and I generally chat there (okay, I gossip, she chats), but such interchanges began well before we found out about the gym connection.

I have certainly lived in communities, both in Atlanta and elsewhere, where such ease of interaction was not the norm. In such neighborhoods, approaching a neighbor was clearly suspect, even if you had been aware of each other for months.

This is not to say that people in Tucker do not have their own level of caution. Strangers of any race or gender are likely to be met with wariness in most neighborhoods. However, once someone is identified as a resident, that tends to change.

In fact, many neighborhoods are happy for an infusion of new blood. I have heard this refrain at numerous community meetings around Tucker, and heard these exact words again last week: “We need more young people to move here.” My neighborhood has Tuckerites who also identify as Indians, Muslims, and Bhutanese, in addition to the more traditional backgrounds most people associate with the city.

There are also a variety of mechanisms in place to help people who want to meet their neighbors. These include the community events on Main Street, a host of Tucker organizations, an active rec center, and more than a few long-term nightspots that attract customers from here and elsewhere.

Of course, there is also the corresponding right to avoid all these, which I will address in my next post.

What was the best way you met your neighbors?

What is Tucker? Part 1: That Small Town Feel

THIS POST IS MY PERSONAL OPINION AND NOT THAT OF ANY ORGANIZATION TO WHICH I BELONG.

Whenever Tuckerites gather, there always seems to a discussion of what Tucker actually means to them. I’ve heard plenty of people talk about maintaining Tucker’s character as the main reason they voted for cityhood. I had this happen again at a dinner Saturday. Getting people to define what Tucker’s character is, however, is not easy. I think I have managed to extract a number of characteristics that often come up in these conversations, and I would love to hear your thoughts. These characteristics are:

  1. Small-town feel
  2. Ability to get to know your neighbors
  3. Ability to be left alone
  4. Civic participation/engagement
  5. Established community – not one being developed
  6. Commercial and cultural opportunities
  7. Desirability – walkable, social, convenient, etc.
  8. EDIT, courtesy of Christy Robnett Atkins: I would add Tucker’s historic resources. Many of these may be unknown or just not yet identified as the gems they are, because they have been there for so long. They really help Tucker’s sense of place, and appeal to old and new residents alike. These include Main Street of course, Johns Homestead, Browning Courthouse, Tucker Recreation Center (formerly Tucker Elementary School), the old Andrews House (currently Wade’s Vans), lots of wonderful houses from the early 20th century, and so many awesome mid-century neighborhoods.

I want to go into more detail on these over the next few weeks, and will start now with that “small-town feel.” This is probably the most common characteristic I hear in these conversations – Tucker feels like a small town despite being so close to Atlanta. There are certainly smaller cities closer to Atlanta – Pine Lake, East Point, Avondale Estates, for instance – but it is the small town feel that seems to matter more than it actually being a small town.

Some of the other characteristics I mention above are part of that small-town feel, especially the ability to get to know your neighbors, but other traits really come into play here. They include:

  1. Locally owned businesses. Yes, we have a Walmart and plenty of fast food joints, but we also have locally owned restaurants, Tucker Pet Store, Cofer, Ace Hardware, the Tucker Mattress Company, and a host of others you would not expect to find in a bigger city. Tucker also has a lot of industrial area (about which I will talk later), some of which houses locally owned businesses.
  2. City center. Main Street has been a destination for decades, even if just for Matthews Cafeteria. However, it is also ground zero for civic events, the farmer’s market and more actives that draw people from all three Tucker districts.
  3. Greenery. Everyone I talk to wishes we had more trees, but they are grateful for what we do have. Parks are a key part of this, but the trees along our stream buffers, in neighborhoods, and even in industrial areas help us feel we are distant from the stereotypical grayness of a city.
  4. Established neighborhoods. Many of our neighborhoods have residents who have been living there for decades. While newcomers are welcome, there is an existing identity as well as a wealth of local knowledge that such longevity provides. In addition, a number of our neighborhoods have members of the same family living in multiple houses, also making it feel more tight knit.
  5. Ability to know Tucker’s political leaders. You may not always agree with them, but our city council members, mayor and the like are approachable and easy to talk to. They engage in conversations before and after meetings, and some are especially active on social media. I certainly recommend contacting them if an issue concerns you. However, you can also meet them before such an issue arises, so that when one does, the lines of communication are already open.

Does Tucker feel like a small town to you? What makes it feel that way to you – or keeps it from feeling that way if it does not?

The DeKalb Film, Music and Digital Entertainment Commission, Part 1

THIS POST IS MY PERSONAL OPINION AND NOT THAT OF ANY ORGANIZATION TO WHICH I BELONG.

As many of you know, last week I was elected chairperson of the new DeKalb Film, Music and Digital Entertainment Commission. Much of Georgia’s recent success with these businesses has come courtesy of vigorous effort at the state level.

Between the entertainment tax credits, trade associations, the Georgia Film Academy and very focused efforts by the state Film, Music and Digital Entertainment Office, state leadership has been key to this effort. Most locales are lucky to have one government employee whose duties include recruiting entertainment businesses. In fact, I am aware of only two cities – Atlanta and Savannah – with full film offices, and now DeKalb appears to be the first county with one.

While the state’s efforts have seen stellar success, Read more »

She Leveled Again

Right at her 18-month birthday we gave up on tracking all the new words she was adding to her vocabulary (which meant they were used correctly, were reproducible, and only used incorrectly in the most adorable ways). Before that she had been evidencing 2-5 new words a day. Now it is 5-10, and I just gave up on writing them all down.

However, one new word warms my heart. She got up on my lap while I was in front of my computer. She immediately began pressing keys, moving the mouse, and repeating the word, “Work!” Now she says that whenever she wants me to open the door into my office 🙂

Oh, and yesterday she walked all the way up our stairs by herself for the first time, holding onto the railing the whole way. Talk about leveling 😉 #proudrpgdad

One DeKalb

On Monday, I was appointed to DeKalb County’s inaugural Film, Music and Digital Entertainment Commission. One of the bright spots Tuesday for DeKalb County was the election of Michael Thurmond as CEO – our first elected CEO in 3.5 years. Interim CEO Lee May has made it clear that he is happy to pass on the gavel, and I had the pleasure of meeting with CEO-elect Thurmond today and hearing him speak on One DeKalb. One of the best things about DeKalb County has always been the fact that because the county is so diverse, if you want something to be successful – an event, business, organization, etc. – you have to involve everyone, no matter their political leaning, race, gender, orientation, etc.

I find that not only does this inclusiveness mean you have a much wider reach, all these disparate points of view give you a much better product. One of the pleasures of my tenure on the board of Decide DeKalb has been seeing new employers attracted to South DeKalb. One of the most exciting has been Valhalla Studios, one of the largest movie studios in the state (and on the East Coast), located off Bouldercrest Road and 285. Part of the excitement is knowing how many of my friends will be going to the movies they will start filming there in January, but the other is seeing that area thrive even more.

Michael Thurmond

Michael Thurmond